With time comes healing, if you allow the process to heal.
I remember losing a love that drained me completely. To regain energy, I decided to leverage my empty space with bold thoughts and daring affirmations.
I chose not to be a victim of love, but rather a warrior for love and life.
After all, if I wanted to make better decisions as a woman, I needed to be sure I was living my best life, without any regrets.
With honest evaluation, I realized I lacked time. I stopped valuing personal reflection, so I needed to figure out my world. I needed to find myself.
In The Past...
I always thought every moment needed to be filled with people, places, and things. Being single wasn't something I enjoyed. Spending my time with love and comfort made me happy. Or so I thought.
Love can be easily mismanaged. It is such an intimate feeling, that at first "like" we start to groom "love".
However, one cannot love until one loves thyself.
It's impossible to give love and receive love, if your self-image is devalued. I've learned this myself. My space was filled with counterfeit love. It was difficult to discern the difference between real and fake love.
Today, I value myself and time more than anything. With freedom, I spend countless hours working towards who I want to become. I reflect very heavily, I map out plans, I pray and I have faith.
I hear God's voice....All of the time.
Long ago, when my space was cluttered, I lacked the time to truly invest in myself spiritually, mentally and physically.
I am now completely invested in myself.
Void of a lover, I am still surrounded by and experience love every.single.day. I've found the source of love, and with my discovery, I haven't missed a day of intimacy.
Visions of the Future...
I do not know the exact details of my future, but I believe the time I've dedicated to myself will bear fruit. With every brutal evaluation and critical change, my blessings have been pushed closer to me.
In many ways, I've already experienced the fruits of my labor. So I know I'm headed in the right direction.
With time, I've healed, loved and transformed.
I encourage you to use your clocks wisely and let go of those who soak up your time.
It will change everything.